If you want to have more of your own self-defined success; let go of the need for external approval. The love you crave can better come from your own internal sense of wholeness and approval.
You have enough to try to hold onto these days. You don’t need to take on the extra weight of the deeds needed to attempt to get approval from others.
If you find yourself wanting validation from someone, this is a sign you are carrying an unneeded burden.
If you instead live more out of your own authenticity and your sense of already being whole, you will recognize you are love.
The truth is, we are deeply conditioned by our society to believe that other people have the roles to give us the approval and love that we feel we need.